Support for the people who support someone through diagnosis and treatment — with tools, structure, and community so you don’t have to navigate this alone.

Because when the system fails the patient, the co survivor picks up the pieces.

I’m Joe Wagner, and CoSurvivor grew out of my experience supporting Allegra Warfield through a stage three breast cancer diagnosis. That call, those few words, changed our lives instantly. As we moved through appointments, treatment decisions, and long nights of uncertainty, one truth became impossible to ignore: support for the patient had structure, but support for the co‑survivor did not.

What I experienced wasn’t unique. Partners, caregivers, and loved ones across the breast cancer community face the same hidden responsibilities — the emotional load, the logistics, the advocacy, the constant need to stay steady for someone they love. Yet there is no clear roadmap for us. No guidance. No shared language. No system.

CoSurvivor exists to change that. Not because I had all the answers, but because I lived the same questions so many of you carry right now — How do I support her and still stay grounded? Who helps me navigate this? Why does the system expect me to just figure it out?

Allegra now leads her own platform focused on patient advocacy and co‑survivorship, and together we’ve committed to strengthening the support system that surrounds every patient. CoSurvivor is the structure I wish I had, and the clarity, tools, and community every co‑survivor deserves.

If you’ve ever felt unseen in your role or overwhelmed by the responsibility you carry, you’re not alone. You belong here.